More on relationships

So once again I find myself writing about relationships. I guess I just find it easy to write about it because I have seen so much just in the last few years when it comes to relationships. Here's a short list of things I have seen in the last few years in relationships: I've seen people rush into a relationship when they hardly know each other, I've seen a couple break up at least 10 times in the span of two years, and I have seen relationships end faster then they began. This is only a short list but the point is, over the years we have tarnished what it looks like to be in a relationship. Whether it be boyfriend and girlfriend, just friends, or even married, we have taken each of these scenarios and turned them into something they are not. If two people are just friends, they ususally want more but are too scared, if two people are dating, eventually things will change between them and who knows where it goes from there. I'm not pointing fingers at any single person  because every single one of us is guilty of doing this. I believe it is one of the greatest feelings to find that person that you are going to spend the rest of your life with but why are we in such a hurry to find him/her. We are too afraid that we will never find love but if we would just trust God and know he has someone in store for us, we would not worry so much about finding love at such a young age. There is no reason to rush into anything especially if that relationship is going to last for such a long time. When did it become wrong to actually be friends with somebody else for a few months first before diving into a relationship? We have such a long life in front of us so we might as well enjoy every second of it and stop worrying about who God is going to bring into your life. It's all a part of his time and I think it is easy to say that God is not an idiot so lets learn to trust in his plan and know that God has someone for each of us. One other things, it's okay to be SINGLE!!!!!!!