Thursday, September 30, 2010
How God would want men to treat women
So I'm sitting in church tonight and my pastor says, Girls never settle with less than perfect when it comes to how a guy should treat you. And guys, never settle with less than perfect when it comes to how you treat a women. I have seen so many relationships that have crashed and burned because the guy did not know how to treat the women. Sure it starts all good, but once the guy has made his mark on that woman, he completely changes into something completely different because he thinks that it will not matter. I'm so sick of seeing boyfriends treat their girlfriends like a piece of meat. A woman is no different than a man (aside from the physical aspects), but they have feelings to and every time we hurt their feelings, I don't think we realize just how much we are hurting them. Guys unless you want to spend the rest of your life alone and without a wife, we had better change fast and realize that we are no higher, better, etc... than any woman out there. Both of men and women are created in God's image and we are both equal in his image. I realize that it's not all the guys fault if a relationship ends, girls have their flaws too, but both parties have the same responsibility in the relationship. One other thing, if a relationship it ends, it has ended for a reason and it's probably not a good idea to get back together especially if you are not going to get married, I saw this so much throughout high school and all did was create more heartache for both the man and woman. Men, we are men, not boys anymore and it is time that we start acting like men. Women, you are women and not girls anymore so it's time that you start looking for a man that you can trust and do not settle for less than perfect when it comes to how they treat you. You are to be treated like a delicate china tea cup!!! So men, step up to the plate and decide to do something about it. If you truly love the woman, you will do anything to make sure that relationship lasts and you will treat her as God would treat her.
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Derek... you are amazing... You will make some girl so very happy some day :) Thanks for standing up for us that are to chicken to do it for ourselves. ;) Though remember some of us aren't to breakable. lol
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